3 Days of Extraordinary


Do you want to live an extraordinary life?

If yes, it’s time to see yourself as extraordinary.

I’ve never met anyone who said, “You know, I love living an ordinary and mundane life.”

And yet, so many are.

Why is that?

It’s not because you don’t have dreams and desires. It’s not because you don’t want more. It’s not because you don’t have what it takes.

The real issue is that you don’t see yourself as the woman you truly are: extraordinary.

Yes you! You are extraordinary.

What is extraordinary?

beyond what is usual, ordinary, regular, or established; exceptional in character, amount, extent, degree, etc.;  noteworthy; remarkable.

Hi there!

I’m Tonya Leigh,
It’s lovely to meet you.

I work with women from all over the world who want to transform their self-image because you can only create to the edge of how you see yourself.

However, it seems not that long ago, I was hiding: behind my weight, my family, and my work.

Like so many others, I convinced myself that this was just who I was and this would be my life.

I did not see myself as extraordinary.

The result? A bland life.

I was afraid to take risks. I loathed my own reflection. I was constantly overwhelmed. I was a mess.

I was living in the shadows of life instead of stepping up onto its stage.

One night, while working a night shift as a critical care nurse, a doctor asked me on our break, “Tonya, who do you want to be?”

Did I have a choice? Wasn’t I just who I was?

This question shook me to my core. I have never been so excited to go back to cleaning bedpans after a break.

In my deepest self, I wanted to be an extraordinary woman — a woman who sets big goals for herself, thought highly of herself, had her own back, and who lived an extraordinary life.

I set out on a journey of self-discovery that showed me how to get to know myself on the deepest level and let go of everything that was holding me back. By the way, I’m still on this journey.

As a Master Life Coach who also loves the world of style and image, it has become my mission to help women transform how they see themselves so that they can live the lives the dream of.

You only have one life.

Why not make it extraordinary?

Extraordinary women do extraordinary things.

We set extraordinary goals for ourselves — goals that change how we see ourselves.

We show up on purpose — in our dress, communication, and style.

We create our ideal surroundings — the people we are around, the books we read, the places we visit, the state of our homes.

We decide what we think about ourselves — and we choose to see ourselves as extraordinary.

And, as we begin to see ourselves in a new way, what we see begins to change as well.

So, if you’ve been feeling like your life is mundane, ordinary, and just plain boring.

Or ...

You think to yourself, “I want more for my life,”  …

I’d love to invite you to join me for …

Over three days, we will explore how to defy the ordinary by focusing on three areas ...

Day One: An Extraordinary Mind

Most women are living in a default setting. We wake up thinking the same ordinary thoughts, doing the same ordinary things, and feeling the same ordinary ways.

If you want life to change and be extraordinary, you must think like an extraordinary woman.

In this class, you will be challenged to think “outside of the box” and into what’s possible.

Day Two: Extraordinary Style

Style goes beyond your outfit. It’s how you express yourself in communication, body language, and yes, through your clothing. In other words, style is how you show up in your life.

Style matters.

How you show up is impacting how you see yourself. And, how you see yourself is shaping your entire life.

In this class, you’ll be challenged to show up powerfully with your style.

Day Three: Extraordinary Surroundings

Your surroundings are impacting you every single day — how you think, what you feel and what you do.

Are you shaping your surroundings on purpose to support the woman you desire to be?

If you want to live an extraordinary life, you need to create extraordinary surroundings — people who challenge and celebrate you, the books you read, the music you listen to, the places you go, the home you create.

In this class, you’ll be challenged to upgrade your surroundings to match the life you desire.

Ready to defy ordinary?
Ready to be extraordinary?
I’ll show you how.

Join me and other amazing women for:


What others have to say about Tonya:

"Tonya Leigh teaches women TO THINK in ways that best serve themselves and how to CREATE a life of which they’ve always dreamed.

She has the ability and determination TO GO DEEP into the issues that keep us hopelessly stuck and then lovingly makes it incredibly fun along that journey.

God broke the mold when he made this extraordinary woman! Can’t emphasize(from personal experiences) enough THE GIFT of Tonya Leigh and her programs."

- Marcia Kirby Rios

"First of all, she’s so fun to listen to. Very positive and calm. Gets you motivated to improve yourself. Tonya has the tools for sure.

I’ve actually become friends with a few of the ladies and those connections are something to treasure. Thank you Tonya Leigh! "

- Kristie Rowan Cox

"Tonya is an excellent coach. She shows you how to shift your thinking so that you can enjoy your life as it is, and how to take the next steps to lead the life of your dreams.

Her ability to get to the core of issues is outstanding. I am continually learning from her. And it is great fun to read her posts.

Love her humor and honesty!"

-Ellen Ogilvy

"Her teachings have challenged and changed my mindset for the best ... tough love and all.

Logical and compelling down to the deepest desires. She is, indeed, a Master Life coach walking the talk.

Well done!"

- H Yvonne Harris

"I found Tonya back in 2016. She talks the talk AND walks the walk. She inspires on a level of true grit and grace. She asks the tough questions, and she also can be your biggest cheerleader.

She has been there, done that. AND she brings questions and topics to the table that are desperately needed, stimulating conversations that change lives. She reminds me that life is so worth living, and doing it at my best every day.

And when we have not so good days, and we all do, she reminds us to not stay in that thought. To love yourself through it. We are all in this together, helping each other straighten our crowns."

-Tina Dauzat DeSoto

Be Extraordinary


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